Want Success guys? Send Flowers Publicly

by Jeremy
(San Jose, CA)

So I'm just regular guy and this story is really advice for all the other regular guys out there.

Some guys think that giving romantic flowers are kind of silly because they die and they cost too much.

...But you have to look at this from the girl's perspective.

When I first started dating girls after graduating from college, and things were getting serious I always use this technique:

You have to give flowers and do in public!

It's a nice gesture, of course. But for the girl it's really about what other girls think.

So...

Be sure to send the flowers in a very public way.

The girl you're dating will probably enjoy having all the other girls in the office see her flowers.

That's what happened when I dated Jane in Chicago in the summer of 1995.

I had met her that weekend in a bar on Rush Street.

It was pretty hot that summer and so people were hanging out on the street.

She and her friends were pretty drunk, but she caught my eye.

We exchange the digits and kissed a little.

Later that week I wanted to ask Jane out for dinner and did it with flowers to her office.

I sent a dozen red roses, the standard.

Let's just say that our evening out for dinner ended successfully.

That's when I learned that sending flowers NEEDS to be public.

And now that Jane and I have two kids and live in the suburbs, I still send flowers to her office and our evenings out still "end successfully."