After going steady, or being with your mate for a while, you can fall short on romantic breakfast ideas for her.
It happens to the best of us at times.
After a while, you can't seem to break out from those breakfast trips to White Castle ...or those of you living in the USA.
Ok, let's get one thing out of the way. Breakfast is a morning meal ...and to implement these ideas, your mate or date has to be out of bed and not sleeping in.
So, here goes...
Romantic breakfast ideas For Her:
These ideas call for a bit of planning ahead and may very well involve a couple of your closest buddies or pals.
Scout a nice restaurant or dining place...preferably a bit out of town or your village. You don't want to go into a too familiar territory.
Before the big event, make arrangements with the proprietor or manager of the establishment you intend to dine at, and let him or her know of your 'goofy' plans.
From experience, I know that the person would be more that happy to host and help carry out your romantic breakfast ideas for her.
Place a few decorations around the location you'll be sitting at (it may be wise to reserve a seat so as not to jeopardize your spot).
If the decorations are designed and created by you, then you'll add more pizzazz to the event ...as a matter of fact; I'll even encourage you to do so.
On the big day, pick her up with your car or taxi, and enjoy a pleasant drive to the location. Please make sure you don't go speeding.
Having a cop pulling you over and issuing you a speeding ticket is enough to ruin your appetite, and give you indigestion.
...I actually had this happen to me once and trust me - it aint pleasant.
On your way, do not answer too many of her questions. You want to keep some elements of surprise.
Trust me...
Some women, blessed with curious and inquisitive minds, will dig and probe and try to pry some answers from you. Just be a man and exercise some patience and restraint here. The last thing you want is to reveal your 'romantic breakfast ideas for her'.
Ok, you've arrived safely without any hitch.
so far, so good.
Have her seated (do the gentlemanly thing and pull the chair for her), and signaled the waiter or waitress and let her order from the menu.
She'll probably be thinking that this is turning out to be just a 'routine breakfast', and in her mind may be a little disappointed.
I can almost hear her thinking, "heck, what was all the fuss about."
So while the waitress has 'disappeared' with the order, point out a few of the decorations. If you've designed any floral arrangements, let her know about the flowers and where you got them.
You can tell her that you researched decorating ideas from the Internet, or who knows, maybe you're part-time florist.
The whole idea is to let her go from low expectations to slow but gradual heightened enthusiasm and curiosity with each piece of decoration you show her.
Keep her guessing.
Have her read a poem you've tacked on the wall. In it you can point out what she means to you. Say some nice things about her ...her voice, her personality, her kindness, and maybe even a bit of flattery.
Don't go overboard though...
Women have a way of seeing through pretense ...but a bit of flattery in the right balance can simply disarm her and make her knees go weak.
Now I used to think that all poems had to rhyme, but now I know that's not true. If you're not good at composing poems, a simple romantic letter or a couple of small love notes will suffice.
They convey the same romantic feelings.
All the while watch her face light up and her eyes brighten as you slowly build your stock, and raise your profile to that of a 'Romeo' or 'a Knight in Shining Armor'.
Constantly DAZZLE her with each passing minute.
Prepare to hear her coo over and over: Aaawww, how nice of you! Aaawww, how cute! What a guy! Drink in the moment and bask in the compliments.
After all...
You've invested quite a bit to execute your romantic breakfast ideas for her, and you're expecting a hefty return on your portfolio.
By this time she may have forgotten all about breakfast, but gently nod that it's time to eat. While you're seated again, pretend to doodle on a piece of paper on the table.
The whole idea is to distract her from looking up.
Instead of the waitress making a routine delivery, you'll have your buddies lower it from above with strong ribbons. Breakfast will arrive in a romantically decorated tray.
Imagine the shocker on her face when another expectation of her is shattered.
Have her look up and see the real culprits of the miraculous descent. By this time the air should be filled with chuckles and laughter from your cronies, the staff and maybe even some of the patrons around.
You can have your buddies join you for breakfast if they wish or they can leave, knowing that they helped execute your romantic breakfast ideas for her.
To implement your romantic breakfast ideas for her, you need to locate the ideal restaurant and reserve a seat where the tray can be lowered.
...Plan carefully.
Well, what can I say?
you have some 365 days in your year, why not take one day and 'let your hair down.'. The world is filled with mediocre players...but you don't have to be one of them.
Here's hoping that these romantic breakfast ideas for her have helped to inspired some of your own.
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Take care and Bon Appetít...
Roy