Romantic Bedroom
by Amanda
(Baltimore, Maryland USA)
First of all, we do not have a TV or similar devices in our bedroom.
We turn off our phones and clear our calendars.
This allows us to focus on each other and leaves the bedroom a peaceful place.
Secondly, we use lovey colors like red, pink, and white when it comes to the sheets and wall hangings (which are kept to a minimum).
Our sheets are always comfortable and sensual, made of silk or numbered cotton.
And we do not have an excess of big, fluffy pillows!
We try and keep the sheets clean as often as possible so it can be a comfortable environment.
Those few wall hangings include SEXUAL black-and-white art.
We have a well-stocked toy drawer and plenty of naughty outfits in the closet.
We even have one of those swings hanging in the corner.
We keep a variety of lotions and massage oils on hand because we take turns giving each other long massages, and my husband enjoys lighting incense because it relaxes him and smells good.
Occasionally I will sprinkle rose petals on the bed or bring something from the kitchen to feed each other.
We also set a minimum time for just cuddling.