Basis for Long Distance Romances

by Leslie
(Gary, IN USA)

Let us look at the basis for most romances--attraction of some sort...

How can you convey that attraction? Communication.

How can we communicate?

Verbally and non- verbally.

I can only offer a woman's point-of-view.

I want to know that I mean very much to my man. He should convey this to me or I will forget because I am just a silly woman.

I want him to give me the look that signals want, need, romance and love on a regular basis as he feels it.

Slip me a note telling me how he feels.

The problem is that many times in long distance relationships, the feeling is gone right before the relationship ends.

Couples should discuss this.

Ways to keep the feeling alive is simple conversation.

A video chat is a lovely way to stay connected because you can see your mate's expressions.

A telephone call is just as good if both parties are comfortable on the phone.

Gifts are another wonderful idea.

Most women love gifts because it makes them feel special.

One really good way to keep a long distance relationship alive is to visit the person as frequently as possible.

A more adventurous couple may opt for video chat sex or stripping.

A woman or man who feels comfort and trust with their mate will participate in this activity without much hesitation!

However...

Trust must be established.

These are advanced options for mature relationships, not someone you are getting to know.

Goodness knows where the video could end up.